Shared Calendar

One clear view of what comes next.

BestInterest's shared custody calendar brings parenting time, exchanges, appointments, and child-related events together—so you can stop piecing together the week and get back to living it.

The core calendar is included on Free. Schedule-change requests are available on Connect and higher.

BestInterest shared custody calendar showing color-coded parenting time, a custody exchange, and a child activity
Parenting time and the rest of family life, together in one view

From a real co-parent

“Using BestInterest with my ex has been amazing. We are not perfect, but we argue way less, and the advice from the Coparent Coach is honestly the best part. It keeps us focused on our parenting goals.”
— BestInterest parent

Less schedule guesswork

Stop rebuilding the week from messages, memory, and separate calendars.

A co-parenting calendar should answer the practical question quickly: what is supposed to happen next? BestInterest keeps the custody schedule and the events around it in one place.

Parenting time at a glance

Color-coded days make the parenting rotation visible across the month, including exchange days and the schedule you are working from.

The details that move the day

Keep appointments, activities, travel, exchange locations, and one-time or recurring events beside the parenting schedule they affect.

Useful together or on your own

Share one family calendar in Collaborative Mode, or maintain your own private schedule in Solo Mode if your co-parent does not join.

Built for real parenting schedules

Start with the rotation you already use.

Choose a common pattern such as alternating weeks, 2-2-5-5, 2-2-3, 3-4-4-3, or alternating weekends—or create a custom parenting schedule for your family.

Then layer in exchanges and child-related events. The schedule remains the foundation, while the details that shape each day stay close by.

Week at a glance

July 19–25

You Co-parent
Sun19Mon20Tue21Wed22Thu23Fri24Sat25

Thursday, July 23

Custody exchange10:00 AM
Baseball5:00–6:00 PM · You

When the plan moves

Make schedule changes without losing the trail.

On Connect and higher plans, schedule-change requests keep the proposal, response, and result in BestInterest. A request is still a request until the other parent responds.

01

Request the change

Choose the dates, responsible parent, reason, and exchange details for the proposed schedule change.

02

Keep the response with it

In Collaborative Mode, your co-parent can review and respond without the request disappearing into a message thread.

03

See the outcome in context

When a change is approved, the updated parenting time stays visible with the calendar and its in-app history.

A view that travels with you

Keep the calendar in the calendar you already check.

Create a subscription link for Google Calendar, Apple Calendar, or another iCal app. Choose the full picture—including events, tasks, and parenting time—or share only the custody schedule.

You control the link. If you no longer want people to receive updates, unshare it in BestInterest and create a new link whenever you are ready.

Share Calendar

Subscribe from another calendar app
Full CalendarEvents, tasks, and custody schedule
Custody Schedule OnlyUseful for caregivers and family

Unshare existing links any time

Questions, answered

Shared Calendar FAQ

Is the shared custody calendar included on the Free plan?

Yes. The Free plan includes the core calendar, parenting schedule templates, events, exchange locations, and scheduled overnight calculations. Connect and higher plans add co-parent schedule-change requests and approvals.

Does my co-parent need BestInterest to use the calendar?

No. In Collaborative Mode, both parents can use the shared family calendar. In Solo Mode, you can maintain a private schedule even if your co-parent does not join.

What custody schedules does it support?

You can start with common schedules such as alternating weeks, 2-2-5-5, 2-2-3, 3-4-4-3, extended weekends, or alternating weekends. You can also create a custom parenting schedule. Review the result against your current parenting plan.

Can I view the BestInterest calendar in Google Calendar or Apple Calendar?

Yes. You can create a subscription link for Google Calendar, Apple Calendar, or another iCal app. Choose a full calendar with events, tasks, and the custody schedule, or share the custody schedule by itself. You can disable existing links at any time.

Does overnight tracking show what actually happened?

No. BestInterest calculates overnights from the schedule entered in the app. That is useful for planning, but it does not independently verify where a child stayed on a particular night.

Can calendar records be used for professional or legal review?

An organized schedule and change history can provide useful context for an attorney, mediator, or other professional. They are not a guarantee of accuracy, admissibility, or a particular legal outcome.

Give the week one calmer home

Less schedule guesswork. More room to be present.